Describe things as they are.

Example #1: Someone is not stupid for doing something you would not do; 

they are just doing something you would not do.

You are not stupid - They are not stupid.

Example #2: Someone is not being loud and obnoxious, just loud.

Compared to others, they are also not as loud, so they are quieter.

[Is it louder than thunder?]

Example #3: People are not being rude because they haven’t acknowledged you; 

they just haven’t acknowledged you.

They might not have acknowledged you because they were busy doing something 

and were not even aware of your presence.

There is always a reason for everything.

What are the facts?

Now the question begs: Why?

Prospect don’t speculate. 

Method: Twenty-Three